Most of my friends would say I have a shy perality. I exercise regularly and prefer my men to be in good shape. I do enjoy the bar scene and having a few drinks to loosen things up. I do like for my partners to take control as I can be a bit passive, however I know how to please and what I want. I am not looking for a long term relationship since I am newly divorcing. Casual sex and a fun time is all. I like straight forward/kinky bedroom encounters. I prefer one on one sex but would be open to a threesome. I do prefer men, but if the right girl came along, I'd be open to new experiences. Absolutely no bondage, torture or painful fetishes. I would like to add that I receive an assload of email, so if I don't respond, please don't send me hate mail. All stalkers, pesky guys, pushy guys, guys who can't handle a simple "no thank you" will be blocked. Not trying to be a bitch, just sayin...