Hi! I'm here in hopes of finding a young lady who is honest, affectionate, smart, eager to serve, and who would like to try a long-term, loving D/S relationship with a heavy emphasis on oral servitude, lingerie, spanking/paddling, and bondage. I'm single, never married, in good health, I live alone, and am employed full-time. I'm honest, intelligent, polite, humorous, friendly, dependable, and basically a gentleman. I'm passionate about things I like and I'm usually quiet unless a topic comes up that really grabs my interest. I don't enjoy talking on the phone very often, so it's much easier for me to get to know someone online or in person. I am straight. Unless you are (and always have been) 100% female, I can't offer anything more than friendship. In terms of relationships, when I meet someone new, I like to take things slowly for the most part. I love the process of getting to know each other and it's great to develop trust and chemistry before jumping into anything beyond friendship. I'm very affectionate, faithful, protective, encouraging, and a great listener. I believe good communication is extremely important, and that a couple should never be less than completely open and honest with each other.

My Ideal Person The submissive partner I seek must be female, single, younger than me (around 25-35 would be ideal), healthy, active, and be willing (and able) to relocate at some point if she doesn't already live nearby.

I'd prefer (and I want to stress "prefer", as there's some wiggle room here) someone who is Asian, Caucasian, or Indian, isn't a big smoker/drinker/drug user, has no children, isn't overweight, and has little or no body art. I want someone who has a positive attitude and loves to please her partner.

She also needs to have a personality, the ability to hold a decent conversation, and interests unrelated to this lifestyle. I don't want a mindless sex toy, I want a woman who I love being around, talking to, and enjoying a variety of things with. Finally, I need someone who doesn't play games and who is seriously interested in a long-term, loving, monogamous Dom/sub relationship.

Now, just to be clear, I'm not expecting anyone to volunteer to be my sub right away, nor would I offer to be anyone's Dom right after meeting them. What I do hope to find are young ladies who like what they read on this profile, who feel we have a lot in common, and who would like to talk and see where things go from there. And if you think there's a chance that we could be a good match, please be sure to send me a message/flirt/friend request or add me to your hotlist, so I'll know that you'd like to talk.

Leftists/Liberals/Communists/Marxists/Socialists/Anarchists: I'm not even remotely interested. Let's Go Brandon!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Ask me!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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