I’m looking for some Mind-blowing sex, because it’s about using technique. It's not even necessarily about a hard cock or toys. Toys can be fun, but that just isn't it. Mind blowing sex is about touching. Touching each other where it just feels good. That may be slow or fast or moving to a better position or crawling all over the bed. It may be about you moving so that he can better reach your pussy because you want his BBC to touch you and finding yourself splayed all over his body. It may be about having sex with your head hanging off the bed one day while I’m digging all in them guts, It is about the confidence to want something and go after it. Cocks don't stay hard all the time. That's life. But a man can touch, suck , fuck a woman, and a woman can touch, suck, fuck a man.