**NOTE** As a lowly standard member, I can't see most messages that people send me. So if you'd like to talk, please IM me :) I'm usually a fairly shy per, so it's always been difficult getting involved in social situations. I'm not really the bar/partying type of guy, which makes meeting new people even more rare. I'm not looking for anything in particular, I'd just like to meet some people to talk with who have common interests, and see where things go from there! I'm bisexual, my preference leaning toward women. I'm in a polyamorous relationship with a woman who is also bi and we are very open to sharing each other, together or separately. Still looking for another couple to share experiences with.

My Ideal Person I love women (well, people in general) who don't back down from a nice meaty discussion. A good conversation is practically foreplay to me. I'd love to meet someone I can relate to. Sex doesn't always appeal to me on a purely raw level, having some sort of intellectual connection really deepens the experience, even if not on a relationship level.

For men, I'm interested in young fit guys near my own age. I'm not especially looking for another man currently, but I do find my head being turned now and then

Also, geeks/nerds are a definite plus!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Linkin Park, Evanescence, Jem, Beatles, Mika, Pink Floyd,
Norah Jones, Lady Gaga, Josh Groban

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage, There's something oddly erotic about skin-tightlycra

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Scarlett Johansson. Pretty self-explanatory. WOW.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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