Hi there. We are ember and Aigean. We are married and in an open relationship. She is str8 and he is bi. We see our sexual lives as a journey of self-discovery and as such, we have freed each other to enjoy many new discoveries - together and apart. This is our version of an open relationship and it is likely unique to us. We are relatively kinky with each other but are not necessarily looking for kinky people to play. Our only requirement, with regard to the kink, is that you be open-minded and respect our dynamic and our relationship. We are not looking for a Dom, an LTR, or pushy people. We are looking for confident people, comfortable in their own skin, who want to meet up before playing to make sure the vibe is there. Ideally, we would like to create friendships for ongoing play (though we have been known to play NSA too). We have a so we will have to work around that because we never play when he is at the house.

My Ideal Person We are primarily looking for bisexual men. However, we have and do play with straight men and couples (especially if the male in the couple is bi). Ideally, we would like to find several regular bi male playmates who are open to playing with one or both of us, as the situation presents. We are ok with one time meetings, but they would be the exception rather than the rule.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
U2, Dave Matthews Band, Jackopierce, Jimmy Buffett, Indigo
Girls

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
We each have our list of celebrities. Some are even on both
of our lists.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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