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points   7/30/2019

points points points points points points points points points points.


1 Comments, 5 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Parka462 45 F
5  Articles
Dobra rada   7/25/2019

Nie ma to jak cyber tu jesteś Saba


4 Comments, 13 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
deezh803 34 M
8  Articles
wrap up or not?   7/21/2019

Do you all prefer raw or wrapped. Pros and cons?


8 Comments, 96 Views, 53 Votes ,1.69 Score
passiondreamer13 37 M
7  Articles
never share info   7/14/2019

never share info


3 Comments, 80 Views, 46 Votes ,1.65 Score
Txmedic79423 50 M
2  Articles
Someone you know   7/9/2019

Have you ever realized the person you've been chatting with is someone you know, who doesn't know you're in the lifestyle? Would you be able to follow-through with plans to meet?


9 Comments, 148 Views, 105 Votes ,2.50 Score
ttk209 33 M
6  Articles
points v2   6/30/2019

all about them


1 Comments, 7 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
mtl_boy_toy 41 M
4  Articles
First encounter   6/17/2019

Curious.... based on experience do most people meeting for a coffee or drinks before actually hooking up? For whatever reason, sex has always been better for me when getting down and dirty right off the bat. The whole meeting for coffee.... chit chat.... and scheduling a sex date for another time just feels like a waste of time not too mention, has the relationship vibe which i'm not looking ...


3 Comments, 69 Views, 43 Votes ,2.93 Score
be safe   6/3/2019

trust your instincts? and put on a raincoat if not sure?


6 Comments, 105 Views, 74 Votes ,2.34 Score
Alakabam92 31 M
9  Articles
Findsex.com Male to Female Ratio/Crazies   5/26/2019

Seems to me there's a whole lot of men in here and not enough women. Me being in my 20s and straight is also another hassle entirely since most people here from what I've seen and talked to play both sides and are much much older. There's some people which seems to me have never had a sexual encounter in their lives by the way they act on here, say the craziest shit I've ever ...


3 Comments, 112 Views, 59 Votes ,3.68 Score
THERE ARE MEN POSING AS WOMEN HERE!   5/26/2019

Guys beware! Apparently there are some really sad men that have nothing better to do than to pose as women. <br><br> Proceed with caution.


8 Comments, 80 Views, 38 Votes ,4.48 Score
JFactor22 35 M
2  Articles
Need of Points   5/16/2019

Put a condom on and respect your partner. When you both know you are clean then start doing more.


5 Comments, 70 Views, 43 Votes ,2.02 Score
Climaxondemand 65 M
2  Articles
People wanting your email or phone number.   5/12/2019

I just tell them that I chat through the web site and don't give out either until we have set a date to meet. That usually stops the conversations. But if they did persist, I would watch the information to make sure it was accurate. Some had suggested getting a $15 throw away phone but I haven't needed to yet and I don't keep any personal information or pictures. I have them deleted ...


8 Comments, 80 Views, 38 Votes ,3.74 Score
I dunno if   4/10/2019

I have filled my quota of points filled for this...I wish I didnt need to scrounge for points..its hard being poor!


1 Comments, 21 Views, 18 Votes ,1.49 Score
willwatchuforfun 49 M
5  Articles
condoms   4/7/2019

They are a must for me, when I find a woman that is more to the no condom position is it time to worry? or maybe just move on...haha


1 Comments, 5 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
sweetkink33 35 M
9  Articles
Buyer beware   3/30/2019

How many people have run into countless fake profiles here? I would say we all to do our part to week out the almost 70% of fake and flake profiles. Anyone agree?


1 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
NHDomMA 35 M
1  Article
Safety Tips for the newly kinky.   3/20/2019

I’ve noticed an increase in the curiosity of the kink scene lately, and thought I’d post a small safety guide for the newly introduced and curious. <br><br> Bondage Safety: <br><br> * Don’t bind joints, or use a knot that bear weight and continue to tighten. * Rope has no business around the neck with very, very, few exceptions. * If you’re losing feeling or ...


3 Comments, 69 Views, 43 Votes ,3.31 Score
Sucknfuckn3 32 M
5  Articles
Best way to have a first meeting with Singles or couples?   3/14/2019

I’m curious what everyone’s go to first meeting location or scenario is? <br><br> I’ve done a few different ones and as a single man I prefer the public places doesn’t have to be a bar or dinner although if it’s either I usually feel it’s my job to pick up the tab. I think that’s just Curitious to do for anyone who may invite you into their home <br><br> What ...


4 Comments, 85 Views, 54 Votes ,3.60 Score
amelia_isd1 37 F
2  Articles
Keeping yourself safe   3/10/2019

I was recently asked about meeting a couple from my area. I agreed to meet in a very public place and informed them I would be accompanied by a male. They asked why I thought it was necessary to bring someone who wasn't going to be involved in any activities we might decide to engage in. I replied that as a single female it was for my safety. Their reaction was out of this world. Asked if I ...


18 Comments, 256 Views, 40 Votes ,6.75 Score
Adventureman200 75 M
14  Articles
How often to test for STD's?   3/4/2019

How recent should a bloodtest for STD's be to be relevant? Obviously if one has not had sex since their last test that is good, but things like Hepes take 12 weeks to show up in a test.


4 Comments, 66 Views, 37 Votes ,3.15 Score
kuntryfuncpl 63 C
3  Articles
Using personal phones to text !   2/17/2019

To all who are not technical about new stuff, using your personal phine to someone or even worse talking with someone who simply ask for you to is very dumb. Once they have your and get you on with them thru texting or live , if your are anywhere using someones wi-fi you are in even worse risk and potentially a real sucker. These people who know what to do can be in all your info on , ...


5 Comments, 74 Views, 27 Votes ,3.87 Score
Stlforfun1990 33 M
2  Articles
couples on drugs   1/31/2019

Had an issue a few ago with a couple who did drugs, have since decided if you do more than weed, I will not meet.


3 Comments, 43 Views, 31 Votes ,4.10 Score
Online makes it safer or not   1/26/2019

With all the concern of net safety does everyone agree that online seems safer considering you can get to know each other from a distance, look each other up, find out limits and likes, see if you connect, and narrow it down to something that will work. The other option which is going in blind folded and in physical contact has always seemed more of a risk to me. I assume people would rather know ...


4 Comments, 52 Views, 24 Votes ,3.24 Score
scubasex99 62 M
1  Article
Let's keep it real!   1/26/2019

It seems like there are several categories of people here on Findsex.com. NOT including the people who pretend to want to meet & get their jollies in sending people on useless trips to meet people who aren't going to show of the type that create a profile that has no basis in reality... <br><br> So one type wants to meet instantly with very little "getting to know you" ...


6 Comments, 63 Views, 28 Votes ,3.55 Score
Heathen_G 64 M
11  Articles
Don't be this stupid ...   1/26/2019

Red flag one: The man was polite and a great conversationalist. <br><br> Red flag two: She had texted and spoken several times on the phone. [Don't do this before first meeting the guy]. One text should be enough... make plans to meet. <br><br> Red flag three: He wanted to TAKE the woman to Toronto for dinner (she lives 45 minutes outside of Toronto).... Why on Earth ...


1 Comments, 68 Views, 40 Votes ,1.88 Score
name change   1/26/2019

how many times have you changed profiles due to weirdos


4 Comments, 35 Views, 22 Votes ,2.17 Score
Beware   12/20/2018

People pretending to be women, who live close to you, are stranded 1000 miles away, and want to meet but can't get home without your help....yeah, right was my response. Be careful and happy holidays


1 Comments, 36 Views, 27 Votes ,4.40 Score
akshay1513000 37 M
5  Articles
be safe while sex   12/14/2018

do not go blind when ever you go for sex, always use protection talk freely with your partener regarding safe sex practise Talking about STDs is just as important as talking about preventing pregnancy. Condoms offer the best available protection against STIs by acting as a physical barrier to prevent the exchange of semen, vaginal fluids or blood between partners


1 Comments, 48 Views, 32 Votes ,3.43 Score
Tell Someone Where You Will Be   12/8/2018

It is very important to let someone know where you'll be


1 Comments, 32 Views, 25 Votes ,4.35 Score
Getting Cold Feet   12/8/2018

Canceling and rescheduling a date just because you are nervous is not going to make your fear go away. just do it


4 Comments, 41 Views, 25 Votes ,3.46 Score
Meeting Face to Face for the First Time   12/6/2018

Always be Honest and Truthful About Yourself


1 Comments, 31 Views, 18 Votes ,4.22 Score