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closure 8/17/2005
Some people think that breaking up is something that only
one of the couple has to decide on. They seem to think that
they can just make that decision and then ignore the other
person. That's a very childish attitude. If you want
to break up, at least give the other person closure. Tell
them straight and make it clear but give them closure, otherwise
you're storing up trouble.
0 Comments, 633 Views,
32 Votes
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sucks 8/13/2005
breaking up sucks ass with a passion!!!!!!! especially
wen u had the best person ever!!!
2 Comments, 179 Views,
10 Votes
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love hurts 8/13/2005
i love my hubby but hes gon out of town too much we have grown
apart what to do ??? so how to tell him well i took out a add
in his fav magazine it sai: to honey .... with all your time
at work and out of town i regret to inform you that i do not
love u anymore you should recave divorce papers at the door
in just a few hrs. to make sure he fornd this in the magazine
i high lighted in ...
2 Comments, 223 Views,
17 Votes
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Just say it 8/12/2005
I had a difficult situation to face a couple of years back
when I knew I had to say something to someone to clear up a
problem that had been weighing on my mind for far too long.
It wasn't a relationship breakup, but the princple
is the same.
A friend of mine asked me one evening if I'd had that
talk which I'd been putting off. I told him I hadn't
done it that day because it wasn't a ...
1 Comments, 155 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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What is the proper etiquette for breaking up with a 8/11/2005
How do you break up with someone who was a friend with benefits
when the only reason you were a friend in the first place
was purely sexual? You have no desire to hang out with this
person on a completely platonic level and when you 2 first
became involved you made it crystal clear that this was
about sex & not a mutual bond shared between 2 people.
3 Comments, 296 Views,
8 Votes
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Breaking up is tough..but being USED is worse! 8/11/2005
My boyfriend left a week ago. We were together for 8 yrs.
I always thought it was "one-sided", me being
the one that was always trying to hold it all together. Continually
appeasing him so as not to cause any friction in the relationship.
He continued to lose job after job. It would take him a long
time to begin looking for the next job. Which meant I was
the sole provider in most of the ...
2 Comments, 157 Views,
6 Votes
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Does anyone feel this same way? 8/10/2005
After years of long distance the parting of ways is turning
out to be just as hard or harder than the effort it took to
stay together after years of liveing on different seaboards.
Thinking that it may be fateful that we should have been
together regardless of the distance between us, I wonder
if it was meant to be, and if it really is....will it prove
itself after we have spent some time ...
2 Comments, 88 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Why so nice? 8/8/2005
I was dating a girl for the better part of 3 years when I found
out that the reason I continued dating her in the first place
was a complete lie. We had dated for a couple of weeks and
I decided that she really wasn't "the one"
for me and broke it off with her. Then she tells me she's
pregnant. So after long consideration I thought I'd
be a man and take care of my responsiblities. 3 months ...
0 Comments, 173 Views,
4 Votes
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What happened to "Friends with benefits" 8/6/2005
I recently got re-acquainted with an old friend. We knew
each other 10 years ago and partied together. She recently
moved back into town after breaking up with her long-time
boyfriend. She has 2 , 10 and 5. We had never had a sexual
relationship before but we ended up going home together
after the bar one night. It was decided by both of us that
we would have a casual sex fling, suggested ...
1 Comments, 148 Views,
4 Votes
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Befuddled... 8/5/2005
Me and 'Dawn' (we'll call her) had a
confrontation a little over five weeks ago about splitting
up. Over the last 3-4 years (we've been married 7 1/2
now) we started sharing less with each other. A lot less.
She
keeps things to herself and doesn't tell me how she
is really feeling
and I say things I don't really mean when I do get angry
and have been
in the bad habit and not coming ...
1 Comments, 174 Views,
4 Votes
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why trying to come back! 8/3/2005
Why is it that after breaking up, if the man get another
woman before his breaked up woman, she become more pain
for her ! why?.And she would start to beg to come back, and
why is it that when the woman get another man before her breaked
up man, she then feeling more better, and take the man to
be notings.****** why? why?
0 Comments, 289 Views,
4 Votes
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whyy 8/2/2005
why are people so nice in kansas?
0 Comments, 74 Views,
4 Votes
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The Lighter Side 8/1/2005
I just went to Athens this weekend, I came back... felt like
shit, then today... it clicked, Im over Mari... and tomorrow
will be a better day. Today is a brighter day than the day
before and each on just adds on upon the good from the day
before.
<br>
Yes it takes a while for good things to happen, and it takes
an instant for bad things to happen.
<br>
And yes it ...
2 Comments, 74 Views,
8 Votes
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WHY, WHY, WHY??? 7/31/2005
Me and my boyfriend broke up quite a while ago! It took me
a realy long p telling me he loves me, misses me, blah,
blah! Ok so I almost fall for it when I find out he has a girlfriend!!time
to get over him (I was devestated) Now he
has been popping u
Why keep playing wih my emotions, and hurting me! Cause
he knows it does???
2 Comments, 348 Views,
11 Votes
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why do they do that? 7/30/2005
Why when you get to know someone you think pretty well, they
turn around and start calling you drunk at 2:00 in the morning
every day. Why can't they just tell you they are that
way before you like them. Do people actually put up with
that.
0 Comments, 88 Views,
5 Votes
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breaking up after 5 years 7/27/2005
I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 and a half years bout 2 1/2
months ago got boring and always the same she never wanted
to try new things in general. think we just grew apart
0 Comments, 120 Views,
3 Votes
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Why would a guy leave? 7/24/2005
I had awonderful relationship with a guy, we said I love
you to each other quite freely. He taught me about this squirting
thing. We had many things in common, besides sex. We went
on mini-vacations, We spent time at his home and mine as
well. We seldom argued, never fought! And then one day he
said he had grown apart from me and wanted to still be friends,
but it was over. Anybody have a ...
7 Comments, 541 Views,
15 Votes
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Last time with Cherie. 7/23/2005
Some years ago while I was in the service I had a relationship
with this older woman, a slender little blonde named Cherie.
I was 26 and she was 39. We had screwed each others brains
out for over 9 months. Things had gotten a little dull between
us. Normally these would have easy to fix but a month or so
before hand Cherie had wanted to do something a little wild
and crazy. So, we invited ...
1 Comments, 230 Views,
9 Votes
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im tired 7/20/2005
im getting tired of my man i want to explore new things what
should i do?
4 Comments, 245 Views,
8 Votes
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The silent treatment 7/17/2005
Poeple become very selfish at the end of a relationship.
Yes you agree to be friends, and yes for a time that would
be difficult, but why do women then nearly opt for the silent
treatment as an option.
I think that this just causes more friction which quickly
turns an amicable breakup into a bad one.
<br>
What do you think?
2 Comments, 226 Views,
9 Votes
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by myself 7/16/2005
my ex girl friend dumped me also.she said i was not tough
enough because i would not abuse her.also some other issues.so
she runs off with some harley biker or bad boy.is that shallow
or what.nice guys do finish last-dead last.
1 Comments, 74 Views,
2 Votes
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How would I get over 2 times EX ? 7/16/2005
we both work in the same company, but seeing her everytime
at work keep my feeling or the love at time alive. I tryed
to always give her distance, but some time we both come across
with one another.she feeling it just like me, and now she
told me she don`t want to keep distance from a gain, that
is better we be friends. I don`t want to be her friend again
because it is two times my EX now, ...
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0 Votes
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Breaking up is a bitch, therefore.. 7/15/2005
You have a few options. You can be like me and stall it out.
Wait to be posed with thew question and then make a decision,
or you can just honestly take it in stride.
<br>
Cardinal rule number 1: people do what people want to do.
<br>
There's nothing you can do. There would'nt be
any scandal if people thought about others.. The sad truth
is, relationships are ...
1 Comments, 146 Views,
9 Votes
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The Real Reason Breaking Up Is So Hard For Men! 7/15/2005
I’m gonna keep it real. 75% of the rage, grief and jealousy
that a man experiences when he breaks up with his woman -
is due to the fact that he is losing all rights to the pussy.
Better known as the “Coochie.”
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Yeah she may be smart, funny and a great cook. But the bottom
line is it’s “your pussy.”
<br>
And just the mere ...
2 Comments, 290 Views,
24 Votes
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Going on seperate ways 7/12/2005
Breaking up with someone you really love is actually a matter
that you have to think very carefully, or you have to perform
as you play in Hamlet. First of all, you have to take it easy.Tell
her slowly that although you really like her, you two can't
work it out.
She'd ask why? You have to be completely honest and
plain in here. Just name the reason without blaming it onto
her. Your last ...
1 Comments, 138 Views,
8 Votes
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GETING YOUR CAKE & EATING IT TOO! 7/12/2005
Have you ever found the person that just makes you cream
at the sound of there voice? Have you ever just had that person
touch you and oh my you cum before you knew it? I had this happen
to me. In August of 2004 here on Findsex.com I met a man that just sent
me to heaven and back physically and sexually. I had been
married for 19 yrs and he had been married for 9. We both were
in the mist of ...
1 Comments, 280 Views,
9 Votes
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HOW TO MOVE ON. 7/11/2005
I'll tell you now. Who ever said breaking up with a woman,
was easy. Belive me, it isn't or for those of who's
feelings are really genuine and true. On this site I have
had some pretty good times and I'm having more almost
every day. But when one doesn't always go as planned
you just have to learn how to break up the right way. Here
are a few ways to do it.
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1) Once you ...
1 Comments, 171 Views,
6 Votes
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Sometimes things change 7/10/2005
The biggest problem is generally one person in the relationship
grows or matures and the other doesn't. When that happens,
it is usually the one that did the growing that ends up getting
bored and needing to move on.
1 Comments, 138 Views,
4 Votes
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Like Buses In A Big City...There'll Be Another By In 5 Minutes 7/9/2005
I'm a bit of a romantic and devote myself to the one I'm
with so it does hurt when it comes to breaking up. I have come
to believe that self-preservation is more important than
dwelling on what "could have been" and practice
the clean-break method. If I run into any of my ex-fuck buckets
when I'm out and about, I see them as a previous acquaintence...a
bus I rode to get here. Unless they ...
2 Comments, 69 Views,
7 Votes
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Acceptance 7/8/2005
It's hard, yes....but you've got to realize at
some point that there was a reason behind it, and try as best
you can to move on.
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3 Votes
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