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WHAT ARE WE?  

jokker505 34M
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12/14/2018 5:08 am
WHAT ARE WE?
These words can sound horrendous to a couple who is dating.
They can slam the brakes to a starting relationship, even at times strike fear.
Ironically they are also words that give the green light for developing on one.
Our generation has a belief of "easygoing" relationships and we are drawn to people who are doing their own thing. Personal independence, is very appealing to everyone. Nonetheless we are craving for a connection that leaves its inhibitions at the door, and opens its doors to affection.
This behaviour didn't just surge in mid air. Millenials for instance witnessed it. And are in no hurry to take the plunge.
It could be the demise of so many marriages in their early years ,due to the urge to build careers, countries to travel, hell the sense of freedom in itself, can be very seductive!
At the heart of it we don't want to pressure our partner into something they are not.
They need room to be themselves, and have the freedom to explore passion on their own.
Unfortunately, its gone too far, and sometimes our actions have zero accountability. Having to answer to a nagging partner and be emotionally unavailable has become acceptable by our social standars.

IT'S A FUCKED UP SYSTEM!

Sometimes we cant even be smart emotionally, without being judged, or being controlling or bossy.
So what do you do? Do you ask questions? What are we doing here? Can we be exclusive? Do you like me?
Personally i prefer the direct approach. Be bold. And tell your partner you want to be exclusive. With a humorous tone.
It can feel awkward i know, but hey, you are being vulnerable!
Vulnerability and humor are necessary to a loving relationship.
However the question still stands. It always arises when you have the talk to have the next step.
Talk about it openly, its not a long conversation and it isn't a long one to have.

SO DO YOU HAVE THE TALK? DO YOU ASK WHAT ARE WE?
jokker505 34M
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12/14/2018 11:12 am

 Thanks a lot guys for your replies. I appreciate your comments!

And for BiggLala i have to come clean with you. I'm a senior in high school, however i graduate in May next year.

Will you go to the prom with me?

JUST KIDDING!!!!!!!!!


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